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I’m actually right-side up in this photo, it’s our yard that’s upside-down (which explains why my hat doesn’t fall off).

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S. Peter Lewis

Christian, husband, father, friend, and founder of The Dad Story Project

My string of days

  • I BECAME A SON:
    23684 days ago
  • the father of a son:
    14584 days ago
  • the father of a daughter:
    11702 days ago
  • a grandfather:
    4171 days ago

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Father’s Day book contest!

Hello everyone. I plan to publish a book of father-stories written by guest authors in time for this year’s Father’s Day, June 21 (just 7 short weeks away).

In order to pull this little literary feat off, I need to receive at least 15 encouraging, heartwarming, uplifting stories about fatherhood FROM YOU, by June 1st.

SO HERE’S THE CHALLENGE: I need you to sit out 1 Red Sox game on TV, or say no to 1 round of golf, or (ladies) gracefully bow out of 1 luncheon with your friends, or (young people) skip 1 movie, or…you get the idea, and sit down and bang out a 400 – 800 word story that will bring cheer to families everywhere. This year’s theme is:


My father, my children, my friends
A celebration of the delights of togetherness


So take that theme and run with it!

  • Dads, tell me a story about figuring out how to be friends with your own kid
  • Moms, tell me a story about being with your dad or watching your husband do something wonderful with one of your children
  • Kids, tell me some great adventure that you went on with your dad that you will never forget
  • Everyone, tell us a story about a great dad going out of his way to be his kid’s BFF

So, start writing and then submit your story here.

And when I get 15 good ones I’ll start putting the book together.

And if I get more than 15, well that will just be awesome!!!

And if you have a photo to go with your story, send it to me at speterlewis@gmail.com.

Want to see the kind of stories I’m looking for? Click this link.

And if you need even more motivation, read the first book in the series, the exploding cat book.

Now…START WRITING!  😀 

Sneak preview of next book

Sneak preview of next book

The second book in the project series, The Tug of the String: stories about staying connected, is just about ready for publication. (I’m waiting to get an awesome person to write the foreword). As if all three of you aren’t already salivating at the mere thought of this (yeah, not a lot of traffic on the site yet), here is one of the new stories.


 

Down to a great small sea

I went sailing last Tuesday, tacking out into a light breeze until the shore faded to a thin grey line. I had last sailed professionally when I was seven, captaining a tiny merchant vessel that plied the waves and troughs off the coast of New England. I had missed that work, the feel of spray on my face, the taste of salt on my lips, and the roll of the deck underfoot. It felt good to be back at the helm.

When I was very small I would often climb the wooded knoll behind our home in Connecticut and look east over the hills to the great Atlantic. The ocean would wink at me from its silver strand and I would long to be there, out on the great green sea, far from the sight of land, navigating by star-shots, moving goods from continent to continent, always on the lookout for rogue waves. But at seven, my prospects seemed dim, until I talked to Mom.

“I want to sail the ocean,” I said to her one day.

“Of course you do,” she said, wiping her hands on a dish towel. “And you shall. Let’s go.”

So hand in hand we walked down our driveway to the edge of a great small sea.

We built our own ships, there on the rim of a spring puddle, on the shore of our own tiny ocean. We built hulls from oak leaves, and masts from twigs and ferns. For sails we used beech leaves, and for rigging we plucked grass. Our ships were little and our cargo light and the decks were crewed by ants. On hands and knees we blew gently against tiny sails and sent our ships scudding out across dark water toward distant shores.

To a passing neighbor, it might have appeared that my mom and I were simply floating leaves in a puddle, but they would be wrong. Mom’s imagination was not bound by something so small as a puddle, and on that first day, when she took me in tow and said we were going down to the sea in ships, she meant it, and I believed it, and it happened. Mom could take a small idea, mix it with leaves and twigs, and turn the world into a tiny huge thing where a seven year-old boy could be wonderfully lost in the great expanse that was his own backyard.

We sailed for hours, Mom and I, out across the waves, with acorns bound for Portugal and pebbles bound for Ireland. Storms screamed in the rigging, we had chance encounters with whales, and across the galley tables slid steaming plates of gruel. Callouses grew on our hands. The backs of our necks turned cherry red. One day a man fell overboard while watching porpoises dance in our bow wake, and once we were lost for a week in a thick and dead-calm fog.

We sailed that spring and into the long summer, through the foggy doldrums of June and past the gales of September. The first snowflakes came in November and with them came the end of our season and our work so we tied up for good and returned to land.

“I won’t sail with ice in the lines,” Mom said, “Too unpredictable.”

So, I learned to be content with daydreaming and spent my afternoons third grade staring out the window, riding the waves of imagination toward far shores and longing for the spring rains that would flood the low spots in our driveway.

One day, during geography, my teacher asked if anyone knew where England was. While the other kids scrambled for the real answer, I just smiled and thought to myself.

It’s on the far side of a puddle in my driveway, next to an oak tree.

 

The most exciting thing in the world…

E.B White, one of my favorite authors, once spoke about the raw excitement he felt as he ratcheted a blank sheet of paper into his typewriter. I feel the same way about writing—of course I’m dropping my words onto my computer screen instead of a sheet of erasable bond typewriter paper. But other than not needing whiteout, the thrill of all that blank potential is still the same when I sit down to write.

But I also revel in the smooth wonderfulness of a big sheet of real paper. Arches, 140 lb, hot press, 22″ x 30″ in particular. And in the tactile intimacy of dragging a Prismacolor Turqouise pencil across said ocean of paper (a 9B being my favorite of course). You see, I love pictures as much as I love words.


Today I started a new pencil drawing. I’ve been doing realistic pencil drawing for years, and I’ve been waiting for the afternoon light to flood into my studio at just the right angle before I started a new drawing. Today the light flooded in just right, so I slid a huge sheet of perfect white paper out of my portfolio and got ready to go.

The new drawing will be a close-up of my son, Jeremiah’s hands as he feeds his new daughter, Sophie, a bottle. The whole focus will be on my son’s big hands and my granddaughter’s tiny curled fingers and her beautiful little week-old face. The drawing will be pretty big, probably about 20 inches wide and 15 inches tall, and it will likely take between 40 and 50 hours to complete. Yes, it really takes that long—just a few square inches a day. I consider it a good day when I draw an entire thumb! I’ll be posting regular progress reports here on my blog.


 

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